A WORD TO THE WISE!

I believe that prayer is a vital part of a successful marriage, because I invite Christ into my marriage to shape each of us as He desires.
It is not up to me to change and shape my husband, it is up to Christ, after all He knows so much better than I do.
I believe I can bring good to my husband through prayer.
Prayer
for his integrity, his strengths, his weaknesses, his walk, his work – for every aspect of His life.




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